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March 2, 2012

“Your playing small does not serve the world…”

Why it pays to step up, step out and be the change you wish to see Today’s blog is just a little different from my typical posts however I write it with my usual outcome in mind. Simply put, “how can I help my readers bring out their very best in their relationships – and in life?” If you recognize […]
February 16, 2012

What Sets You Free Will Also Keep You Together.

Everyone knows that “the truth will set you free.” If only more people would remember it can keep you together also… As a Relationship Coach who gets called in when there’s a real problem, I can tell you I see the damaging results of inauthentic behavior and decisions nearly every day. Some days I wonder if anyone just speaks the […]
February 3, 2012

How To Have The Hard Conversations

Here’s A Great Way To Break The Ice Without The Frosty Response. Introducing “The Win/Win Request” Have you ever had a time when you needed to have a conversation with your intimate partner about a serious situation…but you were afraid it was going to start a fight? Or maybe you’ve found yourself ignoring an issue and grumbling to yourself while […]
February 2, 2012

Waiting For Superman?

Have you ever wondered how Superman always seems to show up in the right place at the right time? Since 1938, there have been nearly 2,000 Superman comic books written and while I’m definitely no expert in this area, I’ve noticed that it seems like Superman’s alter ego is always in close proximity whenever there is trouble brewing. So at […]
January 5, 2012

The 3 S’s of Relationship TranSSSformation

What If Any Situation Or Problem Could Be Transformed By Remembering Just 3 Simple Words? Those of you who know me well are aware that I got much of my training and inspiration to do what I do from Tony Robbins. I have been blessed to be a Senior Leader in his organization for several years now and have traveled […]
December 5, 2011

How To Live Happily Ever After A.L.L.W.A.Y.S.

If you want a long and happy relationship, here are The 7 Secrets To Resolve Before Marriage – Introducing The A.L.L.W.A.Y.S. Formula™ In case you didn’t see it on FaceBook, I’ve become a regular contributor on a local Fox TV affiliate and I was recently invited back on the air to discuss the highly publicized – and very public – […]
November 13, 2011

“Why is it so damn hard to get a guy to just commit any way?!?!”

Guys take a lot of heat for how they mess up relationships – and believe me, some of it is very well-deserved. However, in this case, there may be other ways to look at this… This might be one of the most-asked questions I get whenever I speak to audiences that are predominantly female. Of course, I hear it one-on-one also…so […]
October 27, 2011

How To Make Your Relationship A Masterpiece

If you want your relationship to be a work of art, 
here’s something to think about… Don’t you just love it when inspiration hits you?!?! Recently, I was talking with a brand new client and as I was explaining how polarity really works, I came up with an incredible metaphor out of the blue that really drives home the point […]
October 14, 2011

What Happens When Emotion Is Faster Than Reason?

Sometimes triggers get fired when we least expect them… Recently I got a call out of the blue from a client I had worked with some time ago. When we first started working together, he had just gotten back together with his ex-girlfriend, with whom he also had a son. Part of the reason we worked together was that he […]
September 17, 2011

The Best – Or Worst – Relationship News Ever.

Before I give you the news, let me give you a little “back story” that got me thinking about this. I just started working with a client who turned 35 and finds herself single again. She has decided to step up and do 35 dates in 35 days and I will be helping to coach her along the way. We’ve […]
September 2, 2011

You Have To Let Go If You Want To Attract Something Better.

When do you finally walk away “for good?” Today, I have a “first” for you. I have a guest writer for you who just happens to be one of my star clients, Jen. I say that because the transformation in her since we worked together has been simply breathtaking…but I’ll let her tell you about it. The reason Jen is […]
July 5, 2011

The Power of The H.U.G. & K.I.S.S.

If you’ve read my blog before, you almost certainly know that I created a CD last year called “The H.U.G. & K.I.S.S. Hierarchy” that teaches you how to transform a relationship quickly by understanding both partner’s ‘invisible’ love or attraction strategies. I say invisible because most people don’t even know they HAVE a very specific and unique one…so they certainly can’t […]