If you’re ready to prevent your past from sabotaging your future, get this book AND workbook, too!
Same Sh*t. Different Date.
Why You Keep Attracting the Same Wrong Partner – And How to Finally Solve It!
If you’re going to keep getting the same old lessons, you may as well learn from them. You may have heard the old saying, “same sh*t, different day.” It’s kind of a darkly comic suggestion that the more things change, the more they stay the same as old, monotonous patterns repeat themselves again and again. In this book by a similar title, relationship coach and expert, Dave Elliott, makes it clear that the exact same process is also happening and creating difficulties in your dating and love life. The result is “Same Shit. Different Date.” As he points out, it’s not a coincidence when the same old buttons keep getting pushed by all new people. It’s not “luck of the draw” when lovers turn to critics. It is not happenstance when you keep attracting the same old issues like partners who are unavailable or who cheat. While it may be cruel, it’s no twist of fate either when totally different people – who seemed nice in the beginning – turn into harsh critics who shame, abuse and belittle. Even if you’re married or in an exclusive relationship, this book will show you how all those random arguments that seemingly have nothing in common aren’t so random after all. In fact, they’re directly related and 100% predictable. Not to mention, 100% healable. Once you make this connection and recognize how it’s affected you in the past, you can begin to change your future. In fact, with your new awareness – and the tools shared within – those hidden saboteurs that continue to trip you up time after time will soon come into view. The good news for you is that once you discover the invisible ties that bind your past and present upsets and heartbreaks, new possibilities are created in a moment. That’s because once your secret saboteurs have been revealed, they can begin to be healed.
Product details
Series: Same Sh*t. Different Date. (Book 1)
Paperback: 246 pages
Publisher: Independently published (May 7, 2019)
Language: English
ISBN-10: 1096781247
ISBN-13: 978-1096781240
Product Dimensions: 6 x 0.6 x 9 inches
Take advantage of the accompanying companion piece & buy the workbook, too! When you buy both, amazon will ship them for FREE!
Appropriately enough, it’s called “Companion. Peace.” And that’s just what you’ll get.
Companion. Peace.
The Workbook To Be Used As A Companion Piece With The Book,
Same Sh*t. Different Date.
Use this book and the exercises in it to get clarity, journal and discover some lifechanging distinctions. This book is for you if you want to learn how to finally heal what’s holding you back & get the love you so richly deserve.If you’re going to keep getting the same old lessons, you may as well learn from them. You may have heard the old saying, “same sh*t, different day.” It’s kind of a darkly comic suggestion that the more things change, the more they stay the same as old, monotonous patterns repeat themselves again and again.In this book by a similar title, relationship coach and expert, Dave Elliott, makes it clear that the exact same process is also happening and creating difficulties in your dating and love life. The result is “Same Shit. Different Date.” As he points out, it’s not a coincidence when the same old buttons keep getting pushed by all new people. It’s not “luck of the draw” when lovers turn to critics. It is not happenstance when you keep attracting the same old issues like partners who are unavailable or who cheat. While it may be cruel, it’s no twist of fate either when totally different people – who seemed nice in the beginning – turn into harsh critics who shame, abuse and belittle.Even if you’re married or in an exclusive relationship, this book will show you how all those random arguments that seemingly have nothing in common aren’t so random after all.
In fact, they’re directly related and 100% predictable. Not to mention, 100% healable.Once you make this connection and recognize how it’s affected you in the past, you can begin to change your future. In fact, with your new awareness – and the tools shared within – those hidden saboteurs that continue to trip you up time after time will soon come into view.The good news for you is that once you discover the invisible ties that bind your past and present upsets and heartbreaks, new possibilities are created in a moment. That’s because once your secret saboteurs have been revealed, they can begin to be healed.
Product details
Series: Same Sh*t. Different Date. (Book 2)
Paperback: 93 pages
Publisher: Independently published (May 7, 2019)
Language: English
ISBN-10: 1796517666
ISBN-13: 978-1796517668
Product Dimensions: 8.5 x 0.2 x 11 inches
Here’s what people are saying about it…
Doing this work led directly to my fiancé in no time!
“I haven’t been able to pin point my real problem until recently and now I’m able to see clearly as to how & why I’ve struggled so much. Narrowing down the root cause and addressing it head on is what sets us free, and I’m happy and grateful that Dave has helped me see that clearly. Once I did this work, I attracted my fiancé in no time!”
It’s like seeing the world with brand new eyes!
“Doing Dave’s process was a real wake-up call for me! I had never given a single thought to what my exes might have in common because at first glance, they seemed as different as night and day. But when I started to really compare them, I was BLOWN AWAY by the similarities I never even noticed! It’s like seeing the world with brand new eyes because I now see clearly how and why I keep attracting narcissistic men. At one time, seeing that would have made me feel really bad about myself but now I know that it was my own inner critic that made me a target for men like that. I will never make THAT mistake again! Thanks so much, Dave!”
Once you know, you have to grow!
“I knew I was struggling in relationships and Dave’s work helped me realize why. But what shocked me more than anything was when I realized how the same types of people that were difficult for me in my romantic life were showing up in other areas, too – especially in my business! I realized how that forced me to retreat, trust less and act “tough.” Now I’m learning how to be more open and vulnerable with the right people and it’s working! I’m actually dating a guy who’s really thoughtful who WANTS TO help me! It’s still a little uncomfortable sometimes but it’s so much better than hiding and trusting no one!”
No time like now to learn the lessons of a lifetime!
“When I filled out Dave’s assessment, I had no idea how profound it would turn out to be going forward. In looking back, I realized that my earliest wounds came from criticism, anger and stubbornness so I vowed never to be those things and I made them 100% wrong. However, as I began healing, Dave helped me see that it’s okay for “nice girls” to feel and express so-called negative emotions, too. In fact, those traits that once caused me so much pain also gave me the keys to escape from a bad relationship that I tolerated for far too long. I needed to feel angry, be critical and stubbornly hold my ground about what I would no longer tolerate. And it was exactly those traits that set me free to heal and love again.”
Check out these other books from Dave Elliott!
The Catch Your Match Formula:
How To Create An Online Dating Profile That Really Gets Results!
Every year, people throw more than $1 BILLION into online dating – but 80% of those people come up emptyhanded, frustrated, disillusioned and even broken-hearted. But it’s not because online dating doesn’t work… Online dating DOES work! It’s bad dating profiles that don’t work! If you want to create an online dating profile that gets results, you’re going to fall in love with The Catch Your Match Formula™. Written by international relationship expert and dating coach, Dave Elliott, this book is a must have if you want to stop wasting time and draw in the right prospects while weeding out the wrong ones. It also helps you articulate what you want – and what you don’t – in an incredibly compelling and articulate way so that great prospects seek out and pursue you!
Decisive Women:
With a chapter by Dave’s wife, Katrina Tse
Decisive Women is a deeply personal collection of women’s stories triumphing over the challenges in life. The women use decisive strategies leading them to the desires of their heart. As a Coach who regularly hears the most intimate thoughts and feelings of so many women all over the world, Dave’s perspective offered a unique insight into the feminine psyche and her relationship to decisiveness.