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June 22, 2014

Reflections on my wedding day!

I just might be starting to understand this relationship thing…maybe… This past Sunday was a really big day and a momentous occasion. That’s because I got remarried about 15 years after my last “learning experience” commonly known as a divorce. You may want to settle in because this is going to be my rawest and most revealing blog ever. That’s […]
April 5, 2014

Leading From The Feminine: how to go farther, faster & with much less stress

If you don’t know how to lead from the feminine, you may need to get out of your own way first I might be the unlikeliest champion ever for the power of feminine leadership in history – and as a man – I make no apologies for it. First of all, it has nothing to do with gender and everything […]
January 16, 2014

Why Sometimes Sparks Just Aren’t Enough

It’s a great start, but sparks will never be enough to keep you warm at night Recently I got a call from a client who had been single for a long time. After our work together, she found a new boyfriend and things were going pretty well for a while. After about four months in, I got a call from […]
October 2, 2013

You’re Either Victim – Or Victor. Why You Can’t Have It Both Ways.

How One Woman Stopped Feeling “Less Than” And Started Calling In More… We all have disappointments and hurts in life: Things that didn’t work out. People that let you down or hurt you. Goals that haven’t materialized. The thing is – nothing has any meaning except for the meaning you give it. Those who develop the skill to find the […]
August 9, 2013

Living The Life Of Your Dreams Starts TODAY

5 years later, the plans I put in place have come together beyond anything I could have ever expected…which begs the question…where will you be 5 years from now? As a coach, I can tell you for sure that human beings have an incredible tendency to overestimate what they can realistically accomplish in a day…while dramatically underestimating what they can […]
May 28, 2013

What happened to the sweet, romantic guy I married?!?

Times…and people…change. So how do you keep growing in the same direction? What happens when that sweet guy you married has seemingly run out of sweet things to say? Recently, I got a call from a friend who was upset that her husband was no longer saying all the nice things or complimenting her like he used to when they […]
May 6, 2013

Do you know your value?

This simple question will not only turn around a troubled relationship. It’ll turn around your life. It seems like I have so many clients right now whose current challenges all lead back to one unmistakable root. They simply don’t know their own value. In one case, it’s a bullying partner who undermines my client’s self-confidence and very sanity, then blames […]
March 28, 2013

Throwing Yourself Down The Steps is not recommended

It sounds like such common sense…yet why do so many people do it? Most people wouldn’t consider standing at the top of a steep flight of stairs and hurtling themselves downward, tumbling and bouncing painfully every step of the way until the forces of gravity and inertia are exhausted and they come to a stop. In the best case scenario, […]
March 9, 2013

Love vs Control – which one do you REALLY want?

You probably can’t have both – so choose very carefully & know you’re making a choice Recently I got an email from a friend who also happens to be a very good coach as well. She asked me a really great question privately and since my goal is to always provide value for my readers in this forum, I thought […]
March 9, 2013

May Your New Year Be Filled With All the Love You Deserve.

Here’s how I spent 2012 working to help you welcome even more love into your life in 2013… I know many of us enter a new year with a combination of uncertainty for what the future will bring combined with hope for a bright future. I wanted to start the new year off absolutely right with a gift for you, […]
December 11, 2012

How to turn it all around when you’ve got it all wrong

When you finally understand how invisible love strategies REALLY work, it can create an incredible reversal of fortune Earlier this year, I helped one of my clients, a very successful doctor, finally leave a long-term relationship that had been going nowhere for some time. In addition to processing the grief of loss while closing out that painful chapter in her […]
November 20, 2012

Polarity and Pleasers Don’t Mix

Here’s a fascinating little discovery I made very recently that even kind of took me by surprise…and I do THIS for a living! I always like to share ideas or stories in my blogs that will provide value for my readers and leave them with a brief “nugget” they can take away and use to get better results in their […]