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January 19, 2016

Dog gone shame: a powerful lesson in relationship dynamics

How a pound of prevention could have kept this pup out of the pound. I often get emails and comments from my readers regarding the articles I publish. Recently one of them had an interesting spin on my usual topic of relationship dynamics so I thought I’d share it and use it as a teachable moment. This particular story shows […]
September 30, 2015

How to find a better husband…inside the one you already have.

A lucky woman may find a great husband. A smart woman will create one. I want to share a wonderful success story of how one woman transformed her marriage and her life. And her husband doesn’t even know she did it…but he likes it. A lot. That woman is one of my clients. She came to me struggling in every […]
November 19, 2014

It took him 29 years to learn how to love his wife…

But the amazing part about it was that he never stopped trying… I’ve been working with a couple that I’ve come to admire so much and their story is so incredible, I wanted to share it here. They came to me after a pretty huge issue caused her to walk out…and that created the space for me to help them. […]
November 3, 2014

The Roots Of Self-Sabotage Run Deep

How We Accidentally Got To The Bottom Of One Client’s Challenge… As a coach, I wear a lot of different hats when working with a client. Sometimes, depending upon the situation and the preferences of my client, I’m a teacher…a cheerleader …a taskmaster…and a detective. Today I want to share a story that shows how hard it is to get […]
October 9, 2014

Why controlling your partner won’t work…but ENROLLING them will…

Here’s a R.A.D.I.C.A.L.™ solution for re-creating an effective partnership Have you ever had a situation where both you and your partner were at wit’s end when it comes to working together effectively? Have you ever wished your partner would just do what you wanted…the way that you wanted it…and when you wanted it? If so, I understand your frustration and […]
October 15, 2013

How do you trust again after heartbreak?

Here’s a powerful reminder that it doesn’t have to be nearly as hard as it feels Recently I had a client share with me a whole series of disappointing stories about how her relationships had all come to an end through one means or another. That’s when she asked me that magic question: “so how am I ever going to […]
October 2, 2013

You’re Either Victim – Or Victor. Why You Can’t Have It Both Ways.

How One Woman Stopped Feeling “Less Than” And Started Calling In More… We all have disappointments and hurts in life: Things that didn’t work out. People that let you down or hurt you. Goals that haven’t materialized. The thing is – nothing has any meaning except for the meaning you give it. Those who develop the skill to find the […]
June 20, 2013

Are you making this big mistake that damages relationships?

The problem is so common, psychologists had to create a term for it – I call it a relationship killer. There is a habit that is so common and pervasive in human relationships that it has its own name. Even though you may not have heard of Fundamental Attribution Error or even know what it is, I can tell you […]
May 28, 2013

What happened to the sweet, romantic guy I married?!?

Times…and people…change. So how do you keep growing in the same direction? What happens when that sweet guy you married has seemingly run out of sweet things to say? Recently, I got a call from a friend who was upset that her husband was no longer saying all the nice things or complimenting her like he used to when they […]
May 6, 2013

Do you know your value?

This simple question will not only turn around a troubled relationship. It’ll turn around your life. It seems like I have so many clients right now whose current challenges all lead back to one unmistakable root. They simply don’t know their own value. In one case, it’s a bullying partner who undermines my client’s self-confidence and very sanity, then blames […]