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November 1, 2012

The reason we get mad is because we didn’t GET EVEN

Now that I got your attention… it’s not at all what you think. Introducing the Cycle of Restitution/Retribution. No – it’s not what you think. I am not suggesting that you “get even” with people in the traditional sense. This is NOT about hurting those who hurt you. In fact, that’s the last thing I would advocate in a relationship […]

October 15, 2012

Oftentimes, the answers you seek are hidden in your questions themselves.

Why you’ll never get a good answer when you ask a poor quality question I’ve been doing a lot of interviews lately and recently, one of my interviewers – who is also a relationship expert in Australia who works exclusively with women – sent me a list of their client’s most commonly-asked questions. With one glance, it was clear to […]

October 1, 2012

An Invitation Beats A Confrontation Any Day…

How do you quickly get past hurt & move toward healing? I was having lunch with a colleague and friend recently and after we finished catching up, laughing and trading stories, she nervously “shifted gears” and announced that she needed my professional help. It was quite clear by the change in her tone and the way she shifted in her […]

September 10, 2012

If You Know Your Value, He’ll Get The Message Quickly.

You Can Learn A Valuable Lesson From This Real-Life Legendary Love For Life. This weekend I heard a beautiful story that perfectly illustrates a point I teach all the time and I want to share it with you for a couple of reasons. Before I go into detail, I want to acknowledge my friend, Nestor Aparicio, who did the phenomenal […]

August 25, 2012

There’s a difference between hard-to-get and impossible-to-get

If you don’t like who you’ve become, it’s time to rediscover who you really ARE I got a new client recently who came to me because she got a good look at her own behavior and she didn’t like what she saw AT ALL. It seems she met up with a man she’s known for some time and it’s very […]

August 25, 2012

Be careful what you wish for…you just might get it

If you keep choosing the same type of partners – and it never seems to work out – you may want to take a step back and look at that Just the other day, I asked my new client to describe the kind of man she was looking for and let’s just say her answers were very revealing. She tried […]

August 25, 2012

1000+ dates & still no winners?!?! Really?!?!

If you choose not to decide, you still have made a choice…yet another way we self-sabotage One of the things I love most about being a featured blogger on popular web communities like The Daily Love is the interaction I have with readers. I got a call recently from a woman who had read my blog about self-sabotaging and while […]

July 3, 2012

Are you self-sabotaging your relationships?

How your hidden beliefs may be getting in the way of you having all the love you deserve I was speaking with a client just the other day who wanted to refer a friend who had just gone through a very difficult breakup. While she was explaining the situation to me, my client brought up a story about some mistakes […]

July 3, 2012

Something “bugging” you?

When you encounter aggravations on the road of life, sometimes you just have to make a quick turn-around…. Some of you may know that I just returned from a month-long visit to Australia with my fiance, Katrina. Now that I’m finally starting to recover from the 14-hour time difference and adjust to sleeping at night again, I wanted to announce […]

May 14, 2012

Are you the flower or the bee?

When it comes to finding true love, remember the flower and the bee before you even think of the birds and the bees. Recently I was working with a client who found herself back on the dating market again after way too much time invested with the wrong guy. The truth is, dating is a lot like marketing yourself to […]

May 2, 2012

Have you checked your love filter lately?

When it comes to love and dating, it’s important to check yourself before you wreck yourself…and possibly many others, too. Here’s a great test for you: In the last few days, an interesting news story broke and went viral on the internet and in the process, it really captured my attention because it had it all…love, dating, betrayal, values, rules, […]

April 9, 2012

You say you want love. What you need is leverage.

If you really want love in your life, there’s one critical decision you need to make first. As my regular readers and friends know, I had the distinct honor and pleasure of serving as best-selling author Marianne Williamson’s personal assistant for the day at her recent program at the University of Maryland. In my last post, I wrote about how […]