The Love Notes Blog

Dave Elliott’s Love Notes newsletters are meant to be quick tips that can be read and digested in less than 5 minutes. The goal is always to educate, inspire and share some kind of distinction or breakthrough that is both actionable and achievable for the reader. Of course, they’re always written with one simple goal: we simply want to serve and benefit our loyal clients, fans and friends.

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December 11, 2012

How to turn it all around when you’ve got it all wrong

When you finally understand how invisible love strategies REALLY work, it can create an incredible reversal of fortune Earlier this year, I helped one of my clients, a very successful doctor, finally leave a long-term relationship that had been going nowhere for some time. In addition to processing the grief of loss while closing out that painful chapter in her […]
November 20, 2012

Polarity and Pleasers Don’t Mix

Here’s a fascinating little discovery I made very recently that even kind of took me by surprise…and I do THIS for a living! I always like to share ideas or stories in my blogs that will provide value for my readers and leave them with a brief “nugget” they can take away and use to get better results in their […]
November 1, 2012

The reason we get mad is because we didn’t GET EVEN

Now that I got your attention… it’s not at all what you think. Introducing the Cycle of Restitution/Retribution. No – it’s not what you think. I am not suggesting that you “get even” with people in the traditional sense. This is NOT about hurting those who hurt you. In fact, that’s the last thing I would advocate in a relationship […]
October 15, 2012

Oftentimes, the answers you seek are hidden in your questions themselves.

Why you’ll never get a good answer when you ask a poor quality question I’ve been doing a lot of interviews lately and recently, one of my interviewers – who is also a relationship expert in Australia who works exclusively with women – sent me a list of their client’s most commonly-asked questions. With one glance, it was clear to […]
October 1, 2012

How do you know when it’s time to go?

When it comes to Relationship Red Flags, just look for The R.I.N.G.S.™ Anyone who knows my work by now shouldn’t be surprised when I share a brand new acronym that can improve your relationships. Of course, an acronym is a great way to chunk a larger amount of information that makes it more memorable, digestible and actionable. I have to […]
October 1, 2012

An Invitation Beats A Confrontation Any Day…

How do you quickly get past hurt & move toward healing? I was having lunch with a colleague and friend recently and after we finished catching up, laughing and trading stories, she nervously “shifted gears” and announced that she needed my professional help. It was quite clear by the change in her tone and the way she shifted in her […]
September 10, 2012

If You Know Your Value, He’ll Get The Message Quickly.

You Can Learn A Valuable Lesson From This Real-Life Legendary Love For Life.. This weekend I heard a beautiful story that perfectly illustrates a point I teach all the time and I want to share it with you for a couple of reasons. Before I go into detail, I want to acknowledge my friend, Nestor Aparicio, who did the phenomenal […]
August 27, 2012

Is “The Big O” Making Or Breaking Your Relationship?

Now that I got your attention…it’s not exactly what you think… When most people hear the words “the big O,” they immediately think of the word orgasm. While clearly that’s a big factor in any “satisfied” relationship, it’s definitely not the only important ingredient.
August 25, 2012

There’s a difference between hard-to-get and impossible-to-get

If you don’t like who you’ve become, it’s time to rediscover who you really ARE I got a new client recently who came to me because she got a good look at her own behavior and she didn’t like what she saw AT ALL. It seems she met up with a man she’s known for some time and it’s very […]
August 25, 2012

Be careful what you wish for…you just might get it

If you keep choosing the same type of partners – and it never seems to work out – you may want to take a step back and look at that Just the other day, I asked my new client to describe the kind of man she was looking for and let’s just say her answers were very revealing. She tried […]