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Dave Elliott’s Love Notes newsletters are meant to be quick tips that can be read and digested in less than 5 minutes. The goal is always to educate, inspire and share some kind of distinction or breakthrough that is both actionable and achievable for the reader. Of course, they’re always written with one simple goal: we simply want to serve and benefit our loyal clients, fans and friends.

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March 4, 2014

What if you’re not really at all who you think you are?

Once you strip off the mask of your “assumed identity,” you may just be surprised what you find beneath… I hope you’ll pardon the slightly cryptic nature of the headline but this may be one of the most exciting blogs I’ve ever written. It’s also potentially one of the most important ones you’ll ever read. Here’s why: I want to […]
January 16, 2014

Why Sometimes Sparks Just Aren’t Enough

It’s a great start, but sparks will never be enough to keep you warm at night Recently I got a call from a client who had been single for a long time. After our work together, she found a new boyfriend and things were going pretty well for a while. After about four months in, I got a call from […]
October 15, 2013

How do you trust again after heartbreak?

Here’s a powerful reminder that it doesn’t have to be nearly as hard as it feels Recently I had a client share with me a whole series of disappointing stories about how her relationships had all come to an end through one means or another. That’s when she asked me that magic question: “so how am I ever going to […]
October 2, 2013

You’re Either Victim – Or Victor. Why You Can’t Have It Both Ways.

How One Woman Stopped Feeling “Less Than” And Started Calling In More… We all have disappointments and hurts in life: Things that didn’t work out. People that let you down or hurt you. Goals that haven’t materialized. The thing is – nothing has any meaning except for the meaning you give it. Those who develop the skill to find the […]
August 23, 2013

When It Comes To Great Relationships, Success Leaves C.L.U.E.S.™

Now There’s An Exact Formula To Create A Legendary Love For Life… For anyone who has ever gone through a breakup or struggled in a relationship, it can seem like success is incredibly elusive. While it’s true that there are many paths to the top of the proverbial mountain, it’s also equally true that the most direct route is by […]
August 9, 2013

Living The Life Of Your Dreams Starts TODAY

5 years later, the plans I put in place have come together beyond anything I could have ever expected…which begs the question…where will you be 5 years from now? As a coach, I can tell you for sure that human beings have an incredible tendency to overestimate what they can realistically accomplish in a day…while dramatically underestimating what they can […]
June 20, 2013

Are you making this big mistake that damages relationships?

The problem is so common, psychologists had to create a term for it – I call it a relationship killer. There is a habit that is so common and pervasive in human relationships that it has its own name. Even though you may not have heard of Fundamental Attribution Error or even know what it is, I can tell you […]
May 28, 2013

What happened to the sweet, romantic guy I married?!?

Times…and people…change. So how do you keep growing in the same direction? What happens when that sweet guy you married has seemingly run out of sweet things to say? Recently, I got a call from a friend who was upset that her husband was no longer saying all the nice things or complimenting her like he used to when they […]
May 6, 2013

Do you know your value?

This simple question will not only turn around a troubled relationship. It’ll turn around your life. It seems like I have so many clients right now whose current challenges all lead back to one unmistakable root. They simply don’t know their own value. In one case, it’s a bullying partner who undermines my client’s self-confidence and very sanity, then blames […]
March 28, 2013

Throwing Yourself Down The Steps is not recommended

It sounds like such common sense…yet why do so many people do it? Most people wouldn’t consider standing at the top of a steep flight of stairs and hurtling themselves downward, tumbling and bouncing painfully every step of the way until the forces of gravity and inertia are exhausted and they come to a stop. In the best case scenario, […]