The Love Notes Blog

Dave Elliott’s Love Notes newsletters are meant to be quick tips that can be read and digested in less than 5 minutes. The goal is always to educate, inspire and share some kind of distinction or breakthrough that is both actionable and achievable for the reader. Of course, they’re always written with one simple goal: we simply want to serve and benefit our loyal clients, fans and friends.


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May 3, 2011

How Do You “Change” Someone Who Doesn’t Want To Change?

I was working with a couple the other day and I wanted to share what happened because my role in this blog is to share “teachable moments” from which we can all benefit. I can almost guarantee that if you read this with an open mind without judging, you’ll probably realize you’ve done this in some form in the past […]
April 19, 2011

Critical Damage: The Real Effect of Criticism

Last week, my lady, Katrina Tse, did an outstanding job teaching a workshop to the members of the Baltimore/Washington PowerTeam and I want to share some of the distinctions from that session. We called the presentation “Critical Damage” and it’s based on the excellent research findings of Allison Armstrong.
March 23, 2011

How Do You Light Your Partner’s Fire?

While talking with a client the other day, he was telling me of his experience back in the dating game again after a relatively recent divorce. In explaining how he felt about a couple of the women he met, he said something that I thought was particularly profound and I want to especially share it with my feminine readers. That’s […]
March 23, 2011

“Drop Your Weapons… or Else…”

Drop your weapons…or else I met for lunch with a close friend recently who is very familiar with my work. He was telling me about a problem he was having in his relationship with his wife. While discussing the issue, he even referenced my work directly showing me that he knew both his and his wife’s primary need in my […]
December 23, 2010

2010 Was A Very Good Year For Love.

As 2010 winds to a close, I always like to look back in gratitude for some of the amazing breakthroughs experienced by my clients that turned into magic moments for me. I feel so incredibly blessed to do this work so it is not only professionally fulfilling, but personally, as well. I hope you will consider a practice of looking […]
December 5, 2010

Can Sir Isaac Newton Really Help Transform Your Relationship?!?

As a relationship coach, I hear it all the time. “Everything would be FINE if you could just change (insert partner’s name here).” Well, at the risk of disappointing you, that’s not exactly the way it works. I’m very effective at getting results for my clients…and the truth is – it’s impossible to change someone who doesn’t want to change […]
November 23, 2010

Can You Create a Soulmate?

Many of you will know that the H.U.G. & K.I.S.S. Hierarchy I developed is a convenient, systematic way to determine your partner’s precise love or attraction strategy. In short, it’s like finding out the exact combination to your partner’s heart so that you can love them in the way they need to be loved. Many people make the mistake of […]
October 19, 2010

Are You Sabotaging Your Relationship?

Your Blind Spots: Relationship Killers You Never See Coming If you don’t have the relationship of your dreams, self-sabotage is probably killing your chances at having it. Now that I’ve made such a provocative statement, let me explain. While that may sound harsh or judgmental, I can assure you that it’s not intended as a verdict, simply an observation meant […]
October 5, 2010

Is There A Weak Link In Your Relationship?

What’s The #1 Thing All Of Your Broken Relationships Have In Common? I discovered this spoof of a motivational poster recently and I was inspired to write a blog about it. In addition to being very well done, it’s also quite funny….because like all great humor…there is a lot of absolute truth in it. “You are the weakest link. Goodbye.” […]
September 20, 2010

Is Stress Harming Your Relationship?

Stress Is A Killer: How safe is your relationship? In 1988, after the Iran Air flight 655 was accidentally shot down by the US Navy cruiser Vincennes in the Persian Gulf, a Congressional hearing was launched to investigate the effects of stress on decision-making. As a Relationship Coach, I hear about their same findings playing out in real time in […]