Stress

August 25, 2012

There’s a difference between hard-to-get and impossible-to-get

If you don’t like who you’ve become, it’s time to rediscover who you really ARE I got a new client recently who came to me because she got a good look at her own behavior and she didn’t like what she saw AT ALL. It seems she met up with a man she’s known for some time and it’s very […]
August 25, 2012

Be careful what you wish for…you just might get it

If you keep choosing the same type of partners – and it never seems to work out – you may want to take a step back and look at that Just the other day, I asked my new client to describe the kind of man she was looking for and let’s just say her answers were very revealing. She tried […]
August 25, 2012

1000+ dates & still no winners?!?! Really?!?!

If you choose not to decide, you still have made a choice…yet another way we self-sabotage One of the things I love most about being a featured blogger on popular web communities like The Daily Love is the interaction I have with readers. I got a call recently from a woman who had read my blog about self-sabotaging and while […]
July 3, 2012

Are you self-sabotaging your relationships?

How your hidden beliefs may be getting in the way of you having all the love you deserve I was speaking with a client just the other day who wanted to refer a friend who had just gone through a very difficult breakup. While she was explaining the situation to me, my client brought up a story about some mistakes […]
July 3, 2012

Something “bugging” you?

When you encounter aggravations on the road of life, sometimes you just have to make a quick turn-around…. Some of you may know that I just returned from a month-long visit to Australia with my fiance, Katrina. Now that I’m finally starting to recover from the 14-hour time difference and adjust to sleeping at night again, I wanted to announce […]
May 30, 2012

You’ll never make yourself weak enough 
to make someone else strong

If you think might makes right, you’ve got it all wrong I got a call the other day from a woman who had seen my posts in The Daily Love community and I thought her issue would be a good concept to share with you. Oftentimes, when I get the call, people are already at their wit’s end with a […]
April 9, 2012

You say you want love. What you need is leverage.

If you really want love in your life, there’s one critical decision you need to make first. As my regular readers and friends know, I had the distinct honor and pleasure of serving as best-selling author Marianne Williamson’s personal assistant for the day at her recent program at the University of Maryland. In my last post, I wrote about how […]
March 20, 2012

Who said marriage was about living “happily ever after?”

What happens when false expectations become disillusionment…or something far, far worse?  Aren’t you glad you’re reading this inspirational little blog? 😉 Actually, it’s not going to be near as pessimistic as the headline sounds…but as long as I have your attention, let’s consider this, shall we? This topic was actually inspired by a FaceBook quote from one of my mentors, […]
February 16, 2012

What Sets You Free Will Also Keep You Together.

Everyone knows that “the truth will set you free.” If only more people would remember it can keep you together also… As a Relationship Coach who gets called in when there’s a real problem, I can tell you I see the damaging results of inauthentic behavior and decisions nearly every day. Some days I wonder if anyone just speaks the […]
February 3, 2012

How To Have The Hard Conversations

Here’s A Great Way To Break The Ice Without The Frosty Response. Introducing “The Win/Win Request” Have you ever had a time when you needed to have a conversation with your intimate partner about a serious situation…but you were afraid it was going to start a fight? Or maybe you’ve found yourself ignoring an issue and grumbling to yourself while […]
January 5, 2012

The 3 S’s of Relationship TranSSSformation

What If Any Situation Or Problem Could Be Transformed By Remembering Just 3 Simple Words? Those of you who know me well are aware that I got much of my training and inspiration to do what I do from Tony Robbins. I have been blessed to be a Senior Leader in his organization for several years now and have traveled […]
November 13, 2011

“Why is it so damn hard to get a guy to just commit any way?!?!”

Guys take a lot of heat for how they mess up relationships – and believe me, some of it is very well-deserved. However, in this case, there may be other ways to look at this… This might be one of the most-asked questions I get whenever I speak to audiences that are predominantly female. Of course, I hear it one-on-one also…so […]