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July 3, 2012

Are you self-sabotaging your relationships?

How your hidden beliefs may be getting in the way of you having all the love you deserve I was speaking with a client just the other day who wanted to refer a friend who had just gone through a very difficult breakup. While she was explaining the situation to me, my client brought up a story about some mistakes […]
July 3, 2012

Something “bugging” you?

When you encounter aggravations on the road of life, sometimes you just have to make a quick turn-around…. Some of you may know that I just returned from a month-long visit to Australia with my fiance, Katrina. Now that I’m finally starting to recover from the 14-hour time difference and adjust to sleeping at night again, I wanted to announce […]
May 30, 2012

You’ll never make yourself weak enough 
to make someone else strong

If you think might makes right, you’ve got it all wrong I got a call the other day from a woman who had seen my posts in The Daily Love community and I thought her issue would be a good concept to share with you. Oftentimes, when I get the call, people are already at their wit’s end with a […]
May 2, 2012

Have you checked your love filter lately?

When it comes to love and dating, it’s important to check yourself before you wreck yourself…and possibly many others, too. Here’s a great test for you: In the last few days, an interesting news story broke and went viral on the internet and in the process, it really captured my attention because it had it all…love, dating, betrayal, values, rules, […]
March 20, 2012

Who said marriage was about living “happily ever after?”

What happens when false expectations become disillusionment…or something far, far worse?  Aren’t you glad you’re reading this inspirational little blog? 😉 Actually, it’s not going to be near as pessimistic as the headline sounds…but as long as I have your attention, let’s consider this, shall we? This topic was actually inspired by a FaceBook quote from one of my mentors, […]
February 16, 2012

What Sets You Free Will Also Keep You Together.

Everyone knows that “the truth will set you free.” If only more people would remember it can keep you together also… As a Relationship Coach who gets called in when there’s a real problem, I can tell you I see the damaging results of inauthentic behavior and decisions nearly every day. Some days I wonder if anyone just speaks the […]
February 3, 2012

How To Have The Hard Conversations

Here’s A Great Way To Break The Ice Without The Frosty Response. Introducing “The Win/Win Request” Have you ever had a time when you needed to have a conversation with your intimate partner about a serious situation…but you were afraid it was going to start a fight? Or maybe you’ve found yourself ignoring an issue and grumbling to yourself while […]
January 5, 2012

The 3 S’s of Relationship TranSSSformation

What If Any Situation Or Problem Could Be Transformed By Remembering Just 3 Simple Words? Those of you who know me well are aware that I got much of my training and inspiration to do what I do from Tony Robbins. I have been blessed to be a Senior Leader in his organization for several years now and have traveled […]
November 13, 2011

“Why is it so damn hard to get a guy to just commit any way?!?!”

Guys take a lot of heat for how they mess up relationships – and believe me, some of it is very well-deserved. However, in this case, there may be other ways to look at this… This might be one of the most-asked questions I get whenever I speak to audiences that are predominantly female. Of course, I hear it one-on-one also…so […]
October 27, 2011

How To Make Your Relationship A Masterpiece

If you want your relationship to be a work of art, 
here’s something to think about… Don’t you just love it when inspiration hits you?!?! Recently, I was talking with a brand new client and as I was explaining how polarity really works, I came up with an incredible metaphor out of the blue that really drives home the point […]
October 14, 2011

What Happens When Emotion Is Faster Than Reason?

Sometimes triggers get fired when we least expect them… Recently I got a call out of the blue from a client I had worked with some time ago. When we first started working together, he had just gotten back together with his ex-girlfriend, with whom he also had a son. Part of the reason we worked together was that he […]
October 3, 2011

The Secret To A Fulfilling Relationship

Change the way you look at things and the things you look at change. After shooting one of my recent TV interviews, I had a chance to visit with one of my very dear friends, Melanie Coffin. While we were talking, she shared a new distinction with me that was so incredibly good, I had to share it with you. […]