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February 3, 2012

How To Have The Hard Conversations

Here’s A Great Way To Break The Ice Without The Frosty Response. Introducing “The Win/Win Request” Have you ever had a time when you needed to have a conversation with your intimate partner about a serious situation…but you were afraid it was going to start a fight? Or maybe you’ve found yourself ignoring an issue and grumbling to yourself while […]
January 5, 2012

The 3 S’s of Relationship TranSSSformation

What If Any Situation Or Problem Could Be Transformed By Remembering Just 3 Simple Words? Those of you who know me well are aware that I got much of my training and inspiration to do what I do from Tony Robbins. I have been blessed to be a Senior Leader in his organization for several years now and have traveled […]
November 13, 2011

“Why is it so damn hard to get a guy to just commit any way?!?!”

Guys take a lot of heat for how they mess up relationships – and believe me, some of it is very well-deserved. However, in this case, there may be other ways to look at this… This might be one of the most-asked questions I get whenever I speak to audiences that are predominantly female. Of course, I hear it one-on-one also…so […]
October 27, 2011

How To Make Your Relationship A Masterpiece

If you want your relationship to be a work of art, 
here’s something to think about… Don’t you just love it when inspiration hits you?!?! Recently, I was talking with a brand new client and as I was explaining how polarity really works, I came up with an incredible metaphor out of the blue that really drives home the point […]
October 14, 2011

What Happens When Emotion Is Faster Than Reason?

Sometimes triggers get fired when we least expect them… Recently I got a call out of the blue from a client I had worked with some time ago. When we first started working together, he had just gotten back together with his ex-girlfriend, with whom he also had a son. Part of the reason we worked together was that he […]
October 3, 2011

The Secret To A Fulfilling Relationship

Change the way you look at things and the things you look at change. After shooting one of my recent TV interviews, I had a chance to visit with one of my very dear friends, Melanie Coffin. While we were talking, she shared a new distinction with me that was so incredibly good, I had to share it with you. […]
September 2, 2011

You Have To Let Go If You Want To Attract Something Better.

When do you finally walk away “for good?” Today, I have a “first” for you. I have a guest writer for you who just happens to be one of my star clients, Jen. I say that because the transformation in her since we worked together has been simply breathtaking…but I’ll let her tell you about it. The reason Jen is […]
August 2, 2011

The Power of Masculine Presence & How To Break Through

I frequently talk about the power of masculinity and how it’s absolutely critical to creating the kind of attraction where polarity kicks in and “good sparks” fly. Without those dancing energies of masculine and feminine being ignited, nothing happens. Just this week, I had two male clients who had been getting a little resistance from a potential partner. In both […]
July 5, 2011

The Power of The H.U.G. & K.I.S.S.

If you’ve read my blog before, you almost certainly know that I created a CD last year called “The H.U.G. & K.I.S.S. Hierarchy” that teaches you how to transform a relationship quickly by understanding both partner’s ‘invisible’ love or attraction strategies. I say invisible because most people don’t even know they HAVE a very specific and unique one…so they certainly can’t […]
April 19, 2011

Critical Damage: The Real Effect of Criticism

Last week, my lady, Katrina Tse, did an outstanding job teaching a workshop to the members of the Baltimore/Washington PowerTeam and I want to share some of the distinctions from that session. We called the presentation “Critical Damage” and it’s based on the excellent research findings of Allison Armstrong.