If you don’t have the relationship of your dreams, self-sabotage is probably killing your chances at having it. Now that I’ve made such a provocative statement, let me explain. While that may sound harsh or judgmental, I can assure you that it’s not intended as a verdict, simply an observation meant to serve – and it comes from a place of love and appreciation. Now, of course, if you knew you were doing it, you’d probably stop – but because it’s a blind spot, you don’t recognize it when you’re doing it. I see it time and time again in my coaching – ANYTHING can change – as soon as you get honest, own it – and commit to new action. Of course, the accountability of knowing I’m checking in on your progress doesn’t hurt either.

The truth is, there is always a pattern to human behavior based on your deeply-scripted preferences, beliefs, attitudes and the meaning you give to situations. It’s all based on human motivational psychology and my SERVUP 6, the basic needs I use to unlock the pattern. Simply put, there is a powerfully intense statement that literally got me into this line of service – what you do in anything is what you do in everything. Believe me…it hasn’t always been so pleasant when one of my blind spots comes into view either. However, I have gotten MUCH better at knowing that it all comes to serve and as I notice it…appreciate the intent…and simply choose anew…the feeling of growth is unbelievable. Now that I know and understand that I will keep getting the lessons until I learn them…I now welcome them instead and know that every new distinction brings me closer to what I really want.How much would it change your life if you invested in yourself and discovered for perhaps the first time all those old self-sabotaging behaviors that have defeated you in the past? What would you do if you could simply stop getting in your own way and begin creating the relationship you dreamed of having not “someday”…but today? How useful would it be if you knew exactly how to capture your partner’s heart forever? What if you could help them do the same for you?

The transformations I have witnessed are nothing short of breath-taking. Successful single women who not only recapture their femininity…but all new attention from some very impressive men. Couples who used to get hung up on the same old blind spots…yet now they move past them with new understanding and forgiveness. Last week, I even had a woman respond with disbelief and excitement when I coached her on sending a text to her man that got the exact response she wanted within seconds…even though she had been craving that response unsuccessfully for weeks. Now isn’t that a whole lot smarter? Why keep doing what hasn’t worked and won’t ever work when you can learn a better way – a lot faster than you think!? If you don’t have all the love you want in your life right now, wouldn’t this be the perfect time to change all that and make the very best investment you’ll ever make…in yourself? If you’re ready to trade in some old blind spots that are not serving you for a brand new legendary love that will serve you, give me a call. I guarantee you’ll be glad you did; in fact, that’s why I offer a money back guarantee.