Self-sabotage

August 25, 2012

There’s a difference between hard-to-get and impossible-to-get

If you don’t like who you’ve become, it’s time to rediscover who you really ARE I got a new client recently who came to me because she got a good look at her own behavior and she didn’t like what she saw AT ALL. It seems she met up with a man she’s known for some time and it’s very […]
August 25, 2012

Be careful what you wish for…you just might get it

If you keep choosing the same type of partners – and it never seems to work out – you may want to take a step back and look at that Just the other day, I asked my new client to describe the kind of man she was looking for and let’s just say her answers were very revealing. She tried […]
August 25, 2012

1000+ dates & still no winners?!?! Really?!?!

If you choose not to decide, you still have made a choice…yet another way we self-sabotage One of the things I love most about being a featured blogger on popular web communities like The Daily Love is the interaction I have with readers. I got a call recently from a woman who had read my blog about self-sabotaging and while […]
July 30, 2010

“The Waverunner Principle: Never hit the brakes on love or forgiveness”

Just in time for summer – I was talking with a brand new client when the topic of forgiveness kept coming up. As you might expect, it’s a rather common topic in relationship coaching. That’s when she said it…something to the effect of “I’m a very trusting woman but if you do me wrong even once – it’s over – […]