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June 20, 2013

Are you making this big mistake that damages relationships?

The problem is so common, psychologists had to create a term for it – I call it a relationship killer. There is a habit that is so common and pervasive in human relationships that it has its own name. Even though you may not have heard of Fundamental Attribution Error or even know what it is, I can tell you […]
May 28, 2013

What happened to the sweet, romantic guy I married?!?

Times…and people…change. So how do you keep growing in the same direction? What happens when that sweet guy you married has seemingly run out of sweet things to say? Recently, I got a call from a friend who was upset that her husband was no longer saying all the nice things or complimenting her like he used to when they […]
May 6, 2013

Do you know your value?

This simple question will not only turn around a troubled relationship. It’ll turn around your life. It seems like I have so many clients right now whose current challenges all lead back to one unmistakable root. They simply don’t know their own value. In one case, it’s a bullying partner who undermines my client’s self-confidence and very sanity, then blames […]
March 28, 2013

Throwing Yourself Down The Steps is not recommended

It sounds like such common sense…yet why do so many people do it? Most people wouldn’t consider standing at the top of a steep flight of stairs and hurtling themselves downward, tumbling and bouncing painfully every step of the way until the forces of gravity and inertia are exhausted and they come to a stop. In the best case scenario, […]
March 11, 2013

Why Michelangelo would have been the ultimate coach

Where others saw flaws, one genius saw a masterpiece waiting to be revealed I started thinking about Michelangelo’s Statue of David recently, which is one of the most famous works of art ever created and a timeless classic that is recognized around the world. Perhaps the most intriguing part of the story is that the sculptor could have had his […]
March 9, 2013

Love vs Control – which one do you REALLY want?

You probably can’t have both – so choose very carefully & know you’re making a choice Recently I got an email from a friend who also happens to be a very good coach as well. She asked me a really great question privately and since my goal is to always provide value for my readers in this forum, I thought […]
December 11, 2012

How to turn it all around when you’ve got it all wrong

When you finally understand how invisible love strategies REALLY work, it can create an incredible reversal of fortune Earlier this year, I helped one of my clients, a very successful doctor, finally leave a long-term relationship that had been going nowhere for some time. In addition to processing the grief of loss while closing out that painful chapter in her […]
November 20, 2012

Polarity and Pleasers Don’t Mix

Here’s a fascinating little discovery I made very recently that even kind of took me by surprise…and I do THIS for a living! I always like to share ideas or stories in my blogs that will provide value for my readers and leave them with a brief “nugget” they can take away and use to get better results in their […]
November 1, 2012

The reason we get mad is because we didn’t GET EVEN

Now that I got your attention… it’s not at all what you think. Introducing the Cycle of Restitution/Retribution. No – it’s not what you think. I am not suggesting that you “get even” with people in the traditional sense. This is NOT about hurting those who hurt you. In fact, that’s the last thing I would advocate in a relationship […]
October 1, 2012

How do you know when it’s time to go?

When it comes to Relationship Red Flags, just look for The R.I.N.G.S.™ Anyone who knows my work by now shouldn’t be surprised when I share a brand new acronym that can improve your relationships. Of course, an acronym is a great way to chunk a larger amount of information that makes it more memorable, digestible and actionable. I have to […]