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Dave Elliott’s Love Notes newsletters are meant to be quick tips that can be read and digested in less than 5 minutes. The goal is always to educate, inspire and share some kind of distinction or breakthrough that is both actionable and achievable for the reader. Of course, they’re always written with one simple goal: we simply want to serve and benefit our loyal clients, fans and friends.

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November 3, 2014

The Roots Of Self-Sabotage Run Deep

How We Accidentally Got To The Bottom Of One Client’s Challenge… As a coach, I wear a lot of different hats when working with a client. Sometimes, depending upon the situation and the preferences of my client, I’m a teacher…a cheerleader …a taskmaster…and a detective. Today I want to share a story that shows how hard it is to get […]
October 9, 2014

Why controlling your partner won’t work…but ENROLLING them will…

Here’s a R.A.D.I.C.A.L.™ solution for re-creating an effective partnership Have you ever had a situation where both you and your partner were at wit’s end when it comes to working together effectively? Have you ever wished your partner would just do what you wanted…the way that you wanted it…and when you wanted it? If so, I understand your frustration and […]
August 18, 2014

It’s not only your weaknesses that sabotage you. Sometimes it’s your strengths.

How one client discovered that sometimes your strengths are a sword that cuts both ways I started working with a new client recently who needed some help turning around her failing relationship…and she wanted some support in starting her new business at the same time. While that might correctly seem like 2 very different jobs, the truth is that human […]
August 5, 2014

The Easy Way To Have Hard Conversations

If you can remember The 6 A’s of Effective Resolution, you can solve arguments rather than starting them I’m a big believer in proactively speaking your truth and having authentic conversations when an issue arises and I help my clients do just that. That’s because left unspoken, resistance builds up over time until it becomes resentment, rejection and finally total […]
July 15, 2014

The REAL Reason why “this always happens to you”

It’s not a coincidence – it’s a PATTERN – and understanding it will set you free. I had a huge breakthrough with a client recently and I got permission from her to share it in a blog so I could serve others who may see themselves in this scenario. My client has been making big progress for some time now […]
June 22, 2014

Reflections on my wedding day!

I just might be starting to understand this relationship thing…maybe… This past Sunday was a really big day and a momentous occasion. That’s because I got remarried about 15 years after my last “learning experience” commonly known as a divorce. You may want to settle in because this is going to be my rawest and most revealing blog ever. That’s […]
April 5, 2014

Leading From The Feminine: how to go farther, faster & with much less stress

If you don’t know how to lead from the feminine, you may need to get out of your own way first I might be the unlikeliest champion ever for the power of feminine leadership in history – and as a man – I make no apologies for it. First of all, it has nothing to do with gender and everything […]
March 4, 2014

What if you’re not really at all who you think you are?

Once you strip off the mask of your “assumed identity,” you may just be surprised what you find beneath… I hope you’ll pardon the slightly cryptic nature of the headline but this may be one of the most exciting blogs I’ve ever written. It’s also potentially one of the most important ones you’ll ever read. Here’s why: I want to […]
January 16, 2014

Why Sometimes Sparks Just Aren’t Enough

It’s a great start, but sparks will never be enough to keep you warm at night Recently I got a call from a client who had been single for a long time. After our work together, she found a new boyfriend and things were going pretty well for a while. After about four months in, I got a call from […]
October 15, 2013

How do you trust again after heartbreak?

Here’s a powerful reminder that it doesn’t have to be nearly as hard as it feels Recently I had a client share with me a whole series of disappointing stories about how her relationships had all come to an end through one means or another. That’s when she asked me that magic question: “so how am I ever going to […]